'Tea with the Dames' is everything in a tea party
- Written by Martha K. Baker
Truly, in the midst of movies that call for blood, curses, and mayhem, "Tea with the Dames" offers those ingredients elegantly and eloquently from dames of the British realm who are also stars of stage and screen. At tea are Dame and Lady Joan Plowright, Dame Maggie Smith, Dame Judi Dench, and Dame Eileen Atkins.
Originally titled "There's Nothing Like a Dame," – indeed that title can be seen on a clapper board mid-film – the film was conceived by Roger Michell, the South African director responsible for "Notting Hill," among other films. He brought together these old friends, old colleagues, now in their golden years but with articulate memories – even if one has to help the other. For example, Dench cannot remember her response to a director who asked her to play the female lead in Shakespeare's "Anthony and Cleopatra." It takes Joan Plowright to deliver Dench's turn-down: "You don't want a menopausal dwarf to play Cleopatra."
That sends the ladies into gales of laughter, a common enough response to Michell's questions about their early acting careers, their husbands (including fellow actors like Laurence Olivier), and their children -– or "small people," as Maggie Smith calls them. When he asks each woman what she would tell her younger self, Dench declares, "When in doubt, don't." Then, she muses, "I wonder what that is in Latin," as if the mother tongue would make the line more impressive. Michell delivers with a subtitle: "cum dubito desisto."
Michell also backs up the women's memories with films of their work at the National Theater, the BBC, and films. It's magic through and through.
Plowright is blind and Dench nearly so. Several of the women are hard of hearing, but the others kindly speak up for their sakes, knowing how to speak to the balcony. But they are all national treasures, to borrow Tracey Ullman's line about Judi Dench. There are plenty of slaps at that actor's reputation as the pre-dominant dame including moments over the closing credits.
"Tea with the Dames" is literate, funny, poignant, a respite and a reminder. Utterly delicious, this tea with Champagne with the Dames.